Today would have been my mother-in-law’s birthday. She passed away last July. I miss her in ways I never imagined. She always made me feel special on my birthday. I could ask her to do anything, and she’d drop everything to help. We didn’t always agree, especially on issues of spoiling my children. To be honest, she spoiled us all. She loved her children and grandchildren more than anything on earth, and they could do no wrong in her eyes. Now that I have my own grandchildren, I understand.

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January has always been a difficult month for me. For some reason, I feel more keenly the absence of my parents during the winter. I long to sit with them next to the fire, just to talk. I can smell the wood smoke, hear my Daddy laugh and my Mom scold him. If I could just hug them one last time.

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Many of my friends are suffering through a difficult season. One sweet friend passed away just before Christmas. We’d lost touch with each other. I regret not taking more time to seek out old friends. Another friend from my childhood lost her husband. My heart is broken for her. It seems so many of us are dealing with the loss of someone we love.

I struggle with winter depression, but reading scripture helps me overcome the darkness. A friend directed my attention to Lamentations 3:22-23 “The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; his mercies never come to an end. (23) they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. “

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Some of the new mercies I experienced last week included: the beauty of a morning sunrise, a cardinal at the bird feeder, and the sweet face of my sleeping grandson. There are new mercies each day, even during a bitter, cold season. The more difficult the season of your life, the more important it is to search for his mercies. Remember, it is just a season you are passing through.

A closeup photo of a Cardinal bird in winter.

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